TURN ON:When they speak to me quietly and calmly
Gentle compliments (especially if they are not said harshly)
When they don’t rush me and give me time to get used to it
Kind words and attention without pressure
When a person stays and just writes, even if I am silent out of embarrassment
Warm attitude and when I feel like I can relax a little
TURN OFF:When they immediately start being rude and demanding
When they write too straightforwardly and harshly, especially in the first minutes
When they rush me and don’t let me get used to the camera
Loud, harsh messages and pressure
When they ignore that I'm shy and continue to insist
Rudeness and commands to “do it now” - this immediately shuts me down
ABOUT ME:Hi... I'm just starting out and I still get a little embarrassed when I turn on my camera. I still find it awkward to look directly into the lens and say what is usually said only in my ear. But everything is already ready inside. I really want to try, experiment and move on - I just need a little time and support for the embarrassment to go away.
If you are patient, attentive and don't push right away... I promise that I will open up very quickly. I like it when they lead me gently, when they tell me that I’m doing a good job, when they make it clear that my embarrassment is not a negative, but something exciting. It's moments like these that make me want more. And do more.
I'm ready to learn, try new things and show you everything that I've been hiding before. Just don’t rush me at the very beginning - let me get used to it a little, and I myself will ask you to be bolder.
Stay with me... and let's see together how far I can go when I stop being shy.
❤️
